Tips for choosing the right photographer for your wedding.

Author: Makena Cummings

Finding the right wedding photographer can be difficult, stressful, and expensive. These days, a good photographer can charge around $2,500, and you truly get what you pay for. Other than your memory, these are the moments on which you will reflect years from now. They will determine the way in which you describe your special day to your friends, your children, and your children’s children.

Choosing the photographer for your wedding is a huge decision, and the options are overwhelming. Sometimes it just takes a bit of breaking down to make the process a little simpler. To help, I’ve compiled a list of tips for choosing a photographer.

1. Avoid set-ups that are too trendy.

You want photos that will last forever without looking dated or out-of-style. These days the vintage feel, model-esque stances, and extreme angles are very popular. And while some can look incredibly beautiful, others look excessive. Make sure to not cross the line separating elegant from overdone.

This photo is a good example of an elegant, vintage-style photo. It is not overdone. The setting is beautiful but isn’t overpowering, and the filter isn’t heavy.

2. Keep it real.

Make sure stances are not awkward and unnatural. You want to capture the personality of your relationship instead of making it look like something it’s not. Otherwise, you might end up with something like this.

This photo captures the personality of the couple. They are simply being themselves and it adds so much to the beauty of the photo.

3. Think about the reception.

Make sure your photographer can capture the elegance of the ceremony as well as the fun of the after-party.

I love this reception photo. The mix of expressions is fantastic and the angle keeps it unique and interesting.

4. Make sure you are comfortable around the photographer.

This may seem like an unnecessary point compared to the others, but it is equally important. You might think that you could be natural in any situation, but you would be surprised how the attitude of the photographer can alter your own expression.

5. Shop around.

The internet has revolutionized the methods of choosing a wedding photographer. Most photographers have websites that are appealing and easy to navigate. They post photos from multiple events and many even have an ongoing blog which features even more photos.

6. Keep it natural!

This is you and your spouse, real people, your friends and family. You want them to appear the way in which you know them, not as some perfect looking, untouchable group of people.

Everyone has their own approach when it comes to choosing a wedding photographer. Of course, these are just guidelines. What is really important is being true to yourself and your personality. I hope that these tips have helped you in making this decision and I wish you the best of luck.

10 Reasons Why You Should Have a Wedding Website

Author: Olivia Picton

Creating a wedding website has become a fun and easy way to share details about your special day. Here are eight reasons why you and your future spouse should start one:

  1. Details: The number one reason to have your own wedding website is to provide details that otherwise couldn’t fit on a 5 x 7 in. invitation card. There is no way for you to provide all the details you would like your friends and family to know on that little piece of cardstock. Put a link to your website on your invitation, and your guests will have easy access to unlimited information.
  2. Getting to know the couple: Some of your guests will know you and your fiancé better than others. If you are going to share your special day with them, they would love to learn more about you both. Get into the nitty gritty and share the particulars including your courtship, the proposal, etc. People eat that up. They want to know how you met and when you are getting married. Make it interesting by having your fiancé write about you and you write about your fiancé.
  3. The forgetful friends: Who hasn’t misplaced a wedding invitation, especially if it was sent months in advance? It’s a bad feeling when you’re running late and realize that you forgot the directions at the house. Rather than turn around and waste time, your friends can pull up your website on their phones.
  4. A good place for registry information: It is widely acknowledged that including your wedding registry information in your wedding invitation is lame. Your wedding invitation’s envelope will already be packed with an invite, response card, direction card, accommodations card, and a picture of you and your fiancé; there is no room for a tacky registry information card. Your website will be a one-stop shop location where people can find the perfect gift for you.
  5. Speaking of those enclosure cards: You can provide as many enclosure cards that your heart desires on your blog. Many blogging platforms (i.e. Blogger, WordPress, Tumblr, etc.) allow different tabs and various formats.
  6. Google Map for example allows you to embed maps and directions directly on to your blog. Google Docs has different forms that you can use to organize and plan the day. It has an RSVP form that you can also embed onto your website. It’s an easy way for your guests to RSVP and it automatically enters the information provided by your guest into a spreadsheet.
  7. Pictures: If you’re spending money on a photographer to take your pictures and Photoshop you to look good, everyone should see them. Instead of just sending one out with the invite, you can post all of your pictures (or at least the ones that you look really good in) onto your blog for your guests to see. It’s also fun for your friends and family to see pictures of you and your loved one while you were dating.
  8. Your wedding party deserves some credit, too: Your bridesmaids and groomsmen are the people closest to you and your future spouse. Acknowledge them on the blog. They deserve to be celebrated as well. You could even write a quick little story about each of the bridesmaids and groomsmen.
  9. More money, less problems: Final, a wedding website will save you a lot of money and grief. You’ll save a ton of money on printing and postage alone.
  10. If there’s an emergency change in the reception location or time of the ceremony, you can inform your friends and family on the website. You’ll save time and stress, not having to call everyone individually.

A wedding website will be unique to you and your fiancé. It’s quick and easy to set up. You can customize it to share all the information that you want without having to spend any extra money. Your website will not only make your life easier but your family and friends as well.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Olivia Picton is a mother of three little boys. In her spare time she likes to write about weddings, food, and anything else that might make life easier on herself and others. She also works part-time working with a company that does wedding catering in Salt Lake City, Utah.

Choosing the perfect Baltimore wedding venue can be a little overwhelming. Here’s some ways to make it easier.

Finding the perfect Baltimore wedding venue can be a very time consuming and exhaustive process. With so many options for ceremonies and receptions, a bride and groom may begin to feel overwhelmed. You can get married on a golf course, where you say your vows on the putting green and have an elegant reception in a country club. A water front wedding gives couples the option of saying I do at sunset while the waves lap against the shore. A traditional bride might want a more intimate ceremony inside a beautiful chapel. A garden wedding provides lush trees and flowers giving a charming setting that doesn’t need a lot of work. Backyard weddings offer a blank canvas, perfect for artistic brides to create the wedding of their dreams. These are just some of the many different types of venues available to couples.  When beginning the search for the perfect romantic spot to tie the knot there are a few things to keep in mind to help narrow down the many choices.

Decide on the style and theme of your wedding

You want to pick a venue that will display the type of style and or theme you want for your wedding. If you are wanting a tropical or beach ambiance, picking a venue with water will complete your tropical theme. A classic winter wedding could be done in a resort up in the mountains surrounded by bare tree branches, snowflakes and crystal accents. If a religious wedding is what you want, a church is a great setting to portray that style. Wooden pews and gorgeous stained glass windows complete the traditional chapel look.

Geographic location

 If you have your heart set on a destination wedding, picking the country or city will help narrow down the choices. You already know the style of your wedding, now select a place that will help show that style. If you know you want to get married in the city or town that you live in picking a venue might be easier since you are already familiar with the area. Selecting places that will show off your already chosen style will make the decision that much easier.

Look at Your Guest List

 You also want to consider how many people you are expecting at your wedding. If you know your guest list is going to be quite large, you will need a venue that will support that many people. There is no point in looking at a venue that will not hold as many guests as you want. If you are having a smaller wedding you won’t need as much space, so looking at smaller venues will be helpful in narrowing down the options.

Budget

 When looking at Baltimore wedding venues, the final thing to think about is budget. Couples should talk about how much they want to spend on the location. The amount of money you want to spend on your wedding will determine where you will be getting married. Brides that are working within a smaller budget might love the idea of a backyard wedding where a lot of the details can be “Do It Yourself.” Brides with a larger budget might enjoy an extravagant wedding at a country club or resort. Regardless of how much or how little you want to spend there is a wide range of wedding sites that can fit any budget.

As you begin your search for the perfect Baltimore wedding venue, remember that this is meant to be a special time for the bride and groom. Knowing what you want will make the quest for the perfect spot even more enjoyable.  Congratulations on your engagement and best of luck to you.

Modern or Traditional: Baltimore Bride, Plan an Autumn Wedding to Fit Your Style

Baltimore brides, as we enter the month of September, let’s take a look at how you can plan a fall wedding to fit the season and your style for your special day. By combining classic traditions with modern variations, you’ll find the wedding planning tips you need to create an original autumn atmosphere.

Embrace modern decor with vibrant colors and bold floral arrangements.

#1 Color Scheme: When Moss Isn’t Your Thing

Gather inspiration from this fall’s natural tones. Embrace amber, deep saffron, brick red, mocha, topaz, and moss green. If you’d like to branch beyond traditional palettes, incorporate a rich, vibrant tone for your accent color. Think plum, blush, slate gray, lavender, cream, navy, and fuchsia.

#2 Marrying Outdoors: Managing Falling Leaves in Autumn

Just because you’re hosting a fall wedding doesn’t mean you must marry indoors. While an indoor reception can create an intimate, warm environment, also consider an outdoor ceremony if weather permits. Speak to the venue’s coordinator about outdoor options, indoor back-up plans, and set-up for each situation. Remember to schedule someone to rake any leaves from the ceremony area on the wedding day to make room for chairs, an arch, and an easily accessible aisle.

#3 Floral Décor: More than the Usual Themes

Be inspired by seasonal décor for your wedding theme. While you may like to incorporate pumpkins and cornucopias, also feel free to take some liberties for floral décor. Consider tall arrangements with Manzanita branches near the buffet and cake tables. For reception table centerpieces, add short vases with wide bases, filled with colorful fresh flowers, a dash of hypericum berries, and full leaves for greenery. For a breathtaking bridal bouquet, add your favorite bloom to any combination of these autumn blossoms: rose, sunflower, orchid, dahlia, spider mum, or gerbera daisy.

wedding reception table with blue, gold, and sage linens and flowers

Show traditional style with your floral arrangements, centerpieces, and natural colors.

#4 Reception Meal: Scrumptious Soup and Spice Cake

In autumn’s chilly weather, feel free to match your meal to the season. Exchange a cool, crisp salad for a warm red soup. Serve harvest vegetables, like carrots and onions. Present your meats in a similar fashion. Steaks may include rich, brown sauces, and chicken (or even a festive Cornish game hen) may involve succulent spices. Of course, don’t forget a rich cake and autumnal cocktails to complete the meal.

#5 Book Early: Thinking Beyond 11/11/11

Since the autumn months include many holidays (like Labor Day, Halloween, Veteran’s Day, and Thanksgiving), be prepared to book early. You may be competing for venue space with not only fellow weddings, but also corporations wishing to celebrate the spirit of the season. Also, with a date booked far in advance, you’ll give your guests plenty of time to make travel arrangements despite the busy months.

If you like the fall season, then celebrate your marriage in autumn. Just as the earth is experiencing a change of season, so are you and your groom as you both take the plunge into this next phase of your lives. Embrace it together! Surrounded by the beauty of nature and the admiration of your guests, you’ll soon enjoy a special day unlike any other for your autumn Baltimore wedding!

Written by Allyson Siwajian © 2011

Photographs by Allyson Siwajian © 2011  (Featured floral arrangements by Enchanted Florist and Suncoast.)

The Perfect Fit: Find Wedding Rings to Represent your Lifestyle and Love Story

Imagine it, Baltimore bride! Soon you’ll be standing side-by-side with your groom before your officiant, your families, and all your wedding guests. Whether you’re at the altar, beside a ceremony arch, or under the arbors, you’ll say the words, “I do,” and you’ll be joined in marriage with the man you’ve waited for so long. You’ll take his hand in yours, and gently you’ll slip the ring on his finger to symbolize your love from that moment unto eternity.

Brides, in anticipation of that moment, you’ll first need to choose wedding rings that represent your relationship. To begin this process, let’s focus on what you and your groom will need to know before you visit a jeweler. Also, we’ll explain part of the process so you’ll know what to expect, what to look for, and how to know you’ve found the right wedding rings to display your love for a lifetime.

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Bridesmaids: Tips to Keep your Friends throughout the Wedding Planning Process

Your bridesmaids are your closest friends and family. As the ladies who have stood by your side time and time again throughout your life, now they’re prepared to stand at your side to support you throughout your wedding. While you’ll likely have a long list of expectations for your bridesmaids, have you considered how you can help them succeed in return? Baltimore brides, read today’s bridesmaid tips to do your best for the women who are doing so much for you in anticipation of your special day.

Beware bridezilla.

Sounds easy enough, right? But, brides, you have to remember what your bridesmaids are seeing. Communicate your hopes for the wedding day in manageable sessions, rather than one massive information download. Give them liberty to take a wedding planning break from time to time. Finally, remember to ask them about their lives and invite them over to just spend time together as friends. The wedding may be all about you, but you also want to still have your friends once the reception party ends.

Say, “You can wear it again” and mean it.

Despite the popular mantra, brides rarely choose bridesmaids dresses that can be worn again. To let your brides choose the best bet for her budget and style, let your bridesmaids choose their own gowns. As the bride, you can give guidelines (i.e. black tea-length dress) and approve the final purchase. Save yourself the stress of choosing these gowns, and let your bridesmaids find their best fit.

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I Said “YES!”: How to Start your Baltimore Wedding Planning

Congratulations, Baltimore brides! You’re engaged and ready to begin your wedding planning process. But where do you start? If you’re recently engaged, take a look at these tips to start the planning process and skip the stress.

  • Celebrate! Before you begin planning for the big day, take time to soak in this special moment that started it all. You said, “Yes!” Alert your friends and family of the big news. Make phone calls, send text messages, host an engagement party, and change that Facebook status. Whatever your style, share the joy with your groom and the people closest to you.

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